by Sarah Fisher | Jun 19, 2022 | de-escalation, getting support, strategies, triggers
“How do I stop myself from getting drawn in when my child is having a meltdown?” This week in a Connective Parenting® NVR session, a parent asked me this question. It’s a great question and one I thought I’d answer here as I know it something that a lot... 
by Sarah Fisher | May 6, 2022 | de-escalation, getting support, non-violent resistance, Sibling rivalry, strategies, working together
Sibling rivalry Sibling rivalry is a big issue and it’s one that comes up a lot when I’m working with families. If you’re struggling, you’re certainly not alone. I’m aware that there are not a lot of resources around for to help either.... 
by Sarah Fisher | Mar 15, 2022 | consequences, non-violent resistance, strategies
When I became a parent I used the ‘traditional’ methods of parenting of imposed consequences. Some of the imposed consequences I used were, time out, shouting, bribes, and anything else I could think of at the time. The problem is that whilst these... 
by Sarah Fisher | Mar 7, 2022 | connection, gestures, non-violent resistance, Parents, professionals, quality time, strategies
Use little gestures to show your children you love them. They are a great way of connecting and are easier to accept sometimes than words. Often referred to as Reconciliation Gestures these are one of the key aspects of NVR. Increasingly I’ve been using the term... 
by Sarah Fisher | Apr 21, 2021 | non-violent resistance, professionals, strategies, understanding ourselves
There was a discussion last weekend in my Facebook group about the coke bottle effect. Many of the group have experienced it and we talked about ways to reduce it. Listen to the Podcast… What is the Coke bottle effect? In case you don’t know...
